DO NOT BE CONFORMED

Romans 12:2 begins with this command: “Do not be conformed to this world.” The Amplified Version reads this way: “Do not be conformed to this world—this age, fashioned after and adopted to its external, superficial customs.”

We live in one of the most affluent cultures the world has ever known. And we are constantly bombarded with costly, manipulative advertising whose purpose is to prompt us to spend money. Advertisers usually stress the importance of image rather than function. For example, automobile ads rarely focus on a car as reliable transportation that is economical to operate; instead, an image of status or sex appeal is projected.

Reflect on the claims of TV commercials. No matter what the product—clothing, deodorants, credit cards, cars, beverages, you name it—the message is communicated that the “Fulfilling, beautiful, wrinkle-free life” can be ours if we are willing to buy it. Unfortunately, this media onslaught has influenced all of us to some extent. George Fooshee, the author of the excellent book You Can Beat the Money Squeeze, so aptly states, “People buy things they do not need with money they do not have to impress people they do not even like.”

The following graph depicts how the artificial, media-generated lifestyle influences our lives. The bottom curve represents our income—what we really can afford to buy. The next curve illustrates how much we actually spend. We make up the difference between our income and spending by the use of debt, which creates slavery, financial pressure and anxiety. The top of the graph demonstrates what advertisers tell us to buy. It’s an image-conscious, expensive lifestyle that claims to satisfy the human heart’s deepest needs. When we want to live this counterfeit, media-induced dream but cannot afford it, we suffer discontentment, envy and coveting.

Artificial Media Lifestyle graphicNone of us is immune to the lure of this message. Recently a sharp-looking van in a television commercial caught my eye. Our family has a second-hand, 11-year-old station wagon painted an unattractive yellow. This advertised van was perfect for our family—just the right size and color. I even rationalized that this van would be better suited for use in ministry. I found myself spending half an hour each day studying beautiful, slick brochures, admiring new vans on the highway and daydreaming about driving one. I was hooked! The yellow station wagon seemed to get more unsightly every day, while the van went from an “I want it” to an “I need it” category.

I was about to buy the van when I decided to seek the counsel of Jack Norman, a local car dealer and friend. He gave me good advice. He asked me how many miles the station wagon had been driven. “Fifty-five thousand miles,” I responded. He thought for a moment and then he said, “The station wagon is in good condition and should be great transportation for years!” I didn’t want to hear that, but I reluctantly agreed with him. His advice had saved me thousands of dollars. Moreover, the moment the decision was made to keep the yellow station wagon, I lost the desire for the van. It no longer dominated my thinking. Interestingly enough, the yellow station wagon has become better-looking!

From time to time we all get hooked on something we think we must buy—a car, home, camera, boat, you name it. Once hooked, it’s easy to rationalize a purchase. Please remember to seek the Lord’s guidance and the counsel of godly people when making spending decisions.

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Compass—finances God’s way, is a worldwide non-profit interdenominational ministry that teaches people how to handle money based on the principles of the Bible.
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2 Responses to DO NOT BE CONFORMED

  1. Jeff Boutin says:

    Such a wonderful reminder! I will be sharing this with my friends and clients. I hope that you are doing well Howard!

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